Ever since the Nollywood actress who is famous for displaying her nudity to the glare of the public took her fun or whatever-she-might-call-it to a different level with her recent totographics (a term she coined) on twitter, I had refrained from commenting or treating her desperate attempt for attention as a bizarre act by a normal being because she is not normal.
She has not been normal since she was thrust upon the public from the first time I watched her on Agatha Amata's 'Inside Out' Show on MBI were she told the audience, and viewers at home, that she had been raped sometime in her life as she defended her indecent dressing and claimed she was secretly wooed by the same men who condemn her in public.
I remembered that voice of hers, somewhat timid for someone who wasn't timid at all, and who had an air of 'I-don't-give-a-damn' or in the Nigerian parlance 'I-no-send-you' attitude. She still isn't timid, if anything, she has grown bolder or bitchier.
Sometimes I wish she were as successful in her acting as she is with her pornographic displays online, however, that is Cossy Orjiakor, and no one can do her better than she.
Growing up in the midst of friends who knows how to yab (google it) and whose yabs had the strength of ripping you of your self-esteem, I learnt very early that the best form of defense is attack, by 'attack' I mean attacking yourself before others have the chance to do so. By the time they attack you, the impact of their attack will wield little or no damage at all just like most popular and ugly looking comedians, like Basketmouth and Akpororo does. I feel Cossy too has mastered this craft, and nothing anyone has said has had any impact on her yet. But this article isn't really about miss I-no-send you.
It's about a certain girlfriend of a colleague of mine, and every other girl who are equally foolish as the said girl.
I use 'foolish' because, either out of love or sheer joy of getting a good fuck from a certain guy who is a friend as well to this colleague of mine, she allowed the man take pictures of her naked body, most especially her vagina, and with her face showing in it.
Probably she thought her sex partner might delete it later or keep it to himself. Wrong, she was so wrong because the man showed those pictures to my friend to consolidate his 'bragging rights' on how he dealt with her on the bed.
These are acts that may seem innocent at the time but may boomerang in future, I mean the girls future, either as some important man's wife, or as an important society woman. So unless you are Cossy Orjiakor, learn to protect your vagina. It's only Cossy that can do something like this and get away with it.
